Phil dating tips
Seven percent of communication is what you say, and the other 93 percent is non-verbal.That 93 percent screams your “personal truth,” what you really believe about yourself when nobody is looking.So when they get into the date, they start just giving all of that up. My ex did this, my ex did that.' Or they start telling too much about themselves. If they're just rolled over on their heels, those are all serious don'ts."Dr. You give it all up at first, like my mom used to tell my sisters, 'Why buy cow if you get the milk free.' "Wednesday morning on The Early Show, Dr.
"But if you're there, let them know that you are and then don't try to run them off under the get-them-before-they-get-me theory. We talk about that."What about sex on a first date? If you’re carrying baggage — insecurities, fear, desperation — people can tell. Phil cautions about expecting someone to meet a checklist, he does think it’s OK to have deal breakers.But you need to know what they are and get rid of the ones that are frivolous. So we freshened her up a little bit and then put her out there."I said 'Let's make some eye contact, ask some meaningful questions.' You don't care what his sign is. "She described herself as the worst wall flower ever, with drab clothes, she would look at the ground, never got a second date — ever.